Someone stole my other child and was use her as a sheild. 

" I not drunk that flash was #&^% bright." 

James at the Petner's Bar-b Que 

Rain rain go away .....

Man, five days of rain! There may be even more coming. But, why am I complaining we are on the second floor.
Other then that we are doing good. We are waiting on the behaviorist to call us back for James' appointment but he is doing a lot better. The sassy-ness and the defiance is all but stopped for now, when we went to the doctor to get the referral he asked me if we were going to see the doctor so we could talk and get someone to helps us not fight. He got really quiet. For most of the day. I spoke to the doctor and told he what kind of behavior he was displaying and he said the James may be have some kind of emotional regression and need to work through it.
ste Since then James has been trying very hard to correct what he has been doing wrong. That is a great in the right direction but we still feel that talk to someone else may be just what he needs to learn coping skills.
Being a child from divorced parents is not easy. So may be he can find the answers to what ever is bugging him. Or find the skills he needs to cope with his emotions.
Now "sweet" Lilli on the other hand has become that typical two year that just does not like her control of her vast universe controlled. Learning her boundaries is becoming Troubesome to her. But in time (we hope) she will come out of this and be the very sweet and clever girl that she is becoming.
I sit her at my desk this morning missing my family and friends. With all this rain I miss walking across the road at my childhood home, and down the "valley" to the run off creek that comes gushing down the mountain. I miss sitting there in the rain under my umbrella and taking in all that I could hearing the rain and the water sing to the tress and earth. To feel the dampness and the smell. Yet Then I realize that the rain is here and not back home and it would do me no good to go back home.

Art work from James June 2, 2006 

My Busy Week

Monday we went over to some friends house to get together. They had a small pool and my son got in and played and splashed in his drawers. We had fajitas and smores. By the end of the night hubby, me and James were socked. Lilli on the other hand did even want to get her feet wet ( water was too cold I think).
Then on Tuesday I got the TVs moved where I wanted them before Dave went to work on 3rd.
yesterday I went to Belvoir and got the rest of our stuff and then came home and planned on napping a little, but Dave ended up letting me sleep for two hours or so. I woke up to "grilled" chicken pasta ad mixed veggies. It was nice not to have to cook.
Today I got my son's room finished. We got his bed, keyboard, "Lego rug", and his toys sorted and the children's books separated and put in the correct rooms. I got six loads of laundry washed dried, fold and put away. Image my daughter napped most of the afternoon so I did not get to finish her room.
We got the patio set the way we wanted. The treadmill is outside and I used crappy air mattress to cover it. I cut a hole in the bottom snipped the inside plastic and draped it over the treadmill. I have my glider and ottoman set to gaze.
then we got the big wall between the hallway and the kid's room cleared and my table placed along with my snack trays and rack.
So now that leaves my dinning room, master bedroom and bath and the hall and closets left to organize.